But that is not what I'm gonna talk about today! Today I want to discuss, when do you know to call it quits?... Whether it's to call it quits with smoking, eating habits, relationships, drinking or shopping too much. When is the end all of all these things! Well I don't smoke... I have okay eating habits... Yes, I do drink... but moderately! But I would say I have to work on relationships and my shopping habits!
I love my job! I get to do what I love to do and make a pretty penny doing it... So when I go out shopping, I can spend some money on anything my little heart desires!! woo hoo! Vacations, clothes, furniture, drinks, good food and gifts for my friends and family! But when do you reign it in?! This year Im going to take it easy on the spending that I do...I think that when I but something on sale... I have to have it, cause its cheap!!! But every time I purchase something at a discount... it still adds up when there is 10 of those things!!! So Im going to stay clear of stores... not that my internet boutique's are not at my beck and call. But I WILL make a conscious effort to lay off the shopping! I will be a quitter!~
As for relationships, over that past, I don't know, I would say 4 Years... I would say that my friendships haven't changed! My solid core group of besties have stayed together...You know who you are! Love you! Well, as for this new year, it brought me some new thoughts...
that saying "people come into your life for a reason, a season, a moment , or a lifetime."
One of my groupies... decided they were going to check out!! This at first was an awful feeling... we had our share of differences, but we also had many "kodak" moments and tons of laugh that will always be our memories! Then, instead of going crazy, getting mad... I decided to listen to that saying... we both were heading in different directions for a while now... and we're both just trying to go through the motions that we were used to going through... even though those motions didn't really go with our lives anymore! So I guess you could call me a quitter!! I don't want to focus all my time on making this relationship work, when its clearly not going to!!! Look at it as you would like... I think I'm coming out on top!!! So good luck to them in there life's journey... and know that we did have amazing times together!!!
This goes to show you that there are so many different ways to look at things on this earth!!! Just because the word or phrase might be negative... doesn't mean the outcome is!!! Its okay to be a quitter sometimes! When it comes to bad habits, or situations... you walking away, and/or quitting the situation... only benefits you! I'm not talking about walking away from your problems... hahah thats a whole other blog... Just sometimes don't cross out being a quitter... it could get to a happier place in the end!!
And in the end that's all we want it .... happiness!!! Right?!
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